I have an 04 that does the same thing. It has something to do with the wheel speed sensor. I think that either the water or something in it at the car wash interferes with the sensor. It has something to do with the traction control and reducing power to the engine. Dont know much more.
Try spraying the heck out of the inside of the wheel where the sensor is with some carb cleaner and then some wire dry stuff.
I have done this twice with succes and now i only was my car by hand!
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